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Thursday, June 28, 2012

Daddy’s Day

On Sunday the 17th we celebrated Father’s Day with Brad.  He was leaving that day to fly to Baton Rouge, Louisiana for a work trip but we celebrated in the morning the best we could in a short amount of time. 

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Brad went for a bike ride after we made him his new favorite whole wheat blueberry banana pancakes.  Meanwhile the boys were playing on our bed with these alphabet mat pieces.  They were supposed to be cleaning them up. hmmmm. 

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Once Daddy got back from his bike ride Bradley couldn’t wait to give him his Father’s Day card.  I’m sure Brad would have preferred a shower first instead of dripping in sweat.

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Bradley picked him out a Transformers card. Classic pictures of Gavin with no pants on and Easton sucking his thumb.  Not a day goes by in this house where you don’t see these two things.

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Here he was laughing as he was telling him the “joke” he wrote on the bottom of the card, “You’re a Transformer Daddy!”

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These boys love their Daddy! He is definitely a wonderful dad to them.  He loves them unconditionally and understands their boy “charm” so much more than I do.

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Brad got ready for his trip and we got ready for church. Bradley was saying bye for the week and told him to “take your Transformers card so you can read it when you miss us!”

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Love You Daddy, Love Bradley Bear!

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Love You Da- Da! Love, Easty

Gavin was waiting in line in the background but I didn’t get a picture.  He’s so hyper and quick sometimes!

It was just the Father’s Day Brad likes minus having to leave him family. 

I love you Brad for the wonderful Father you our to our boys! I know you don’t take any of it for granted and you would do anything for them. Sadly that is not the case in all families so we know we are blessed with having you forever & always!

Billy, Devon & the kids visit!

 

About two weeks ago (like 3 days after we got home from our trip to MD/VA) Billy, Devon and the kids came to our house.  It was a short trip.  The kids always want more time with each other.  They really are great friends which is awesome to have that with your cousins.

They arrived on Thursday and we just hung out.  It was nice to have a reader in the house other than Mommy and Daddy.  Bella read them all their bed time stories every night.  The kids always love having sleepovers in the same room too.  Holden and Easton even did great together sleeping in their “baby crib” room.

On Friday we went to the Alpaca farm and the kids loved the Alpaca’s.  For some reason feeding these animals just make the kids faces light up which is why we wanted to take them to this farm in particular.  After that the older kids played outside and had so much fun flooding the backyard, making mud balls and using the slip n slide and playing water balloons. Devon and I did a little shopping this day too.

Saturday we went to two different parks and the farmers market.  We wanted to go to downtown Southern Pines and that park and Bella insisted on the castle park so we just did both.  Why not? We ordered pizza for Holden's Birthday celebration for lunch.  He turned two a few days after on Monday the 18th! Devon baked him a ooey gooey melting cake which all the kids loved. He opened gifts and then unfortunately they had to get on the road.  Brad was traveling out of town on Sunday and Billy would be traveling Monday so we all had to snap back into reality. The kids all cried.  Well Bradley was sad and more angry and as it goes with girls being emotional Bella, Madelyn and myself cried!

We miss them so much but are glad we got this special time with them (Smile)!

Monday, June 18, 2012

Trip to VA, MD and PA

On Thursday June 7th we took an impromptu trip to Arlington.  I was home for just four days and then traveling again.  It was supposed to just be Brad going but I am glad we turned it into a family trip.  We Arrived in Arlington and had my mom meet us and take the boys in our car back to her and GG’s house.  Brad and I then headed to Arlington National Cemetery for a Memorial Service for all those killed on the August 6, 2011 crash in Afghanistan.  It was a final burial of all these men, including Brads three teammates lost.

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Me and Tab and then Amanda and Tab, these two are in it together with their heartbreak.

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After the service Brad and I went and changed and had a little more time without the kids. We had to get back for my mom to go to work in the evening.

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On Friday my mom and I got to go shopping and have lunch together while Brad watched the boys. Then Brad met back up with us and we headed to Billy and Devon’s house in Annapolis.  Devon and the girls were in Ocean City on their mommy/daughter time so we hung out with Billy and Holden and barbecued. 

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The kids just enjoyed good old fashioned back yard summer fun.

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Dunka arrived and all the boys ran to him.

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I attempted pictures.  What was I thinking?  Tough crowd.  Four boys and then three bigger boys talking who could have cared less about helping me with pictures.

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Some sword stick fighting happened.

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They enjoyed the trampoline.

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Then we went for a walk down to the Severn river that is right across the street from them.  They have a little beach access point and it was so serene.

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The kids had fun until they got too wet and cold and of course leave it to Gavin to start kicking up water.

We stayed the night and then Saturday morning went back to my Grandmas house.  We helped my mom get the kids loaded into the car to take them to Aubrey’s Barbie Pool Birthday Party.

After that, Brad and I drove to York, PA.  This is where our friend Dan grew up.  The local town was so quaint.  It is amazing how things are so different past Baltimore.  It only took us an hour and a half to get there.  The Memorial event was a ride by the local bikers through the town.  They started at his high school and stopped at places along the way.  We got there as it was ending since we don’t have a bike to ride anyways.  We met up with all of them at the American Legion for a charity event to raise money for the ‘That Others May Live Foundation’ and the SOWF.  They raised about $4,000 and it was split between the two.

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After that we went to Dan’s parents house and partied by the bonfire. I had such a great time getting to know Dan’s parents better.  Seeing the couple that made him the special man he was.  Brad really was honored to be there too. This was his second trip there but he got to see the completed Pararescue ‘Angel of Mercy’ that holds the bonfire.  Dan’s parents had this memorial built in their backyard in remembrance of their son.

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We stayed the night in PA and after breakfast with the Zerbe family and our friends Zach & Megan we headed back to pick up the boys from Grammy and get back on the road to NC that Sunday.

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We have family road trips down to a science now. We love to travel but with kids it is never easy even if you are good at it, so being home feels good!

Aunt Britty is having a Baby (Shower)!

Just a day after we got back from our long weekend at the lake I hopped on a flight all by myself to sunny California.  Los Angeles to be exact.  I was the co host with my mother-n-law for Brit and Ryan’s baby shower for little Stella June set to arrive this July.  This phenomenon happened of my flying by myself all thanks to my wonderful husband who watched the boys for four whole days straight.  I’ve got to hand it to him.  He is a great stay at home Dad and unfortunately for me can most of the time do my job better than I do.  I was hoping I would come home and he would be singing my praises of “how do you do it? you are so amazing!” but instead like the saying goes “I got this!” He certainly did indeed have it all under control.  There may have been poop on the walls and too many donuts for breakfast but the boys loved every bit of it.  They went to the gym and park a lot!

Anyways, back to the shower. I really enjoyed my hang out time when we could fit it in.  Mom and I were so busy with last minute details for the shower and Brit was busy with her last two days of work before her maternity leave started. 

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The shower was at moms friends house, Michelle.  Isn’t her backyard view just stunning!

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We got there at 7 am and the shower was set for 2pm.  Once there we created the space from scratch using Michelle’s things and things we had premade and fabrics.

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Mommy and Daddy’s spot.

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The breeze was swinging her letters.

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Sugar & Cinnamon mix were the favors for our guests. There was also a candy bar that they filled little bags with for the road home.

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The guests were asked to fill out hope cards for Stella and then they strung a bird to their card and tied it to a bird cage.  I forgot to take a picture of that though, bummer.

I got them an album to store the cards in along with a picture of the guest who wrote it.  One day Stella can read these notes to her.

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Flag labels on each paper straw.  Guests wrote their names on themselves.  Instead of using the old sharpie on the cup trick.

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White linens with burlap runners were made complete with three laced mason jars adorned with fresh flowers.  Pale pink roses, deep pink peonies and white hydrangeas. Little conversation cards were set on the table with clothes pins.

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Basket weave icing Tea Cake for Stella!

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The guests of honor.  Mommy Brit and Daddy Ryan!

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She hugged her guests, got pinned Mommy and Ryan grabbed a baby for practice which he ended up rocking her to sleep.  Perfect! The party took off after that.

We ate lots of yummy food and played games.  We did the label on the back game where everyone had to ask questions to find out what baby item was written on their back.  We played the guess the baby bump game.  This created lots of laughs and was perfect for Brit to interact with all her guests.

 

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We also filled this wooden bin that Mom painted and had Ryan put letters on with baby items and had guests name items inside when it was passed around quickly. 

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The last game which was perfect for this shower having Ryan there amongst all these women was the “Newlywed Game” only a “New Parents” Version. I asked Ryan 20 questions ahead of time and wrote his answers on sheets of paper.  During the shower I asked Brit the questions and she had to write on her paper “What did Ryan answer?”  It was hilarious seeing her be put on the spot while Ryan just patiently waited and was totally confident in his answers! I should have tallied but they got more right together than wrong.

 

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His said ‘Brit''

After that it was time to open all their many gifts.

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We also had photo props set up for our guests to take their pictures to be used in the album with the card they filled out.

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After all the guests had gone I took a moment to get some pictures of the happy expecting couple.

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